The weekend was a working one for me, but it wasn't too bad. It actually got started with me being off on Friday. I spent the day packing up the Christmas decorations and in the afternoon I had some "help" from these two.
Tim came home from work a little earlier than normal and decided to use his Red Lobster gift card to take us out to dinner. We both had "create your own" combinations...heavy on the shrimp for me and a little bit of everything for him. Throw in those yummy cheesy-garlic biscuits and it was delicious!
We stopped by Walmart on our way home as I needed another storage box for Christmas decorations and onion powder to make ham and bean soup. Tim need some toiletries so it was all good. All the Valentines' Day stuff was out and as I was walking by I saw a matching Mickey and Minnie and snagged them for Colton and Leah.
Tim and I both worked on Saturday, so I tossed all the ingredients for ham and bean soup into the crockpot and turned it on low before heading to work. It had rained all day Friday, all night, and part of the day on Saturday and the temperature started to drop on Saturday so Tim was wet, cold, and working in mud. He decided to quit early. By the time I got home he'd already taken a hot shower, was in his shorts, and stretched out on the sofa.
I had worried all day about the soup in the crockpot, wondering if the beans would truly be soft enough. They were! The soup was perfect and it was so easy to do. I will be making it this way from now on! Since Tim was on the sofa, my plans to invite Mom and John to share supper went out the window. Instead, I took them a big container for their supper. John declared it delicious.
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Oh, I also got another letter from my biological father on Saturday. That kind of surprised me since I hadn't gotten around to writing back after his last note. I was even more surprised, stunned actually, to find another check in his letter. It seems he feels obligated to catch me up to the same level of gifts he's given his other children. Wow. He likes to share his philosophies with me, which I don't entirely agree with, but I have to say I am getting more anxious to meet this man who so easily gives away large sums of money to a virtual stranger. I want to thank him for blessing me in person...and who knows, maybe he will see through me that there is a God and he's not the enemy. I hope so.
I worked on Sunday. Tim got all the Christmas boxes out to the shed and took down the twin beds in the spare bedroom so our son-in-law can assemble the new bed and trundle bed for me. After that, Tim went out to pick up a few things and get himself a haircut. I came home to an empty house. I didn't know where he was or when he'd be back...he never leaves notes and he forgot his phone...so I just ordered pizza and wings for supper.
It sure was good to get home yesterday. It had been a rough day in the dementia unit. One of the residents refused to take their meds and they were nasty, screaming, and had to have someone with them every moment of the day. That really wears on you and it also gets everyone else in the unit worked up so we had some other behaviors going on. I'm not back in there until Thursday so I hope it will have calmed down, but with the full moon coming up this weekend that might be wishful thinking.
This morning I'm going to finish putting the house back to rights now that the boxes are all gone. Looking forward to that!
Set your minds that this will be a good day and then build on it, my friends. Make this first full week of 2020 an amazing one!
Awesome on your biological dad...that is nice of him to write.
ReplyDeleteI love the photos, smiles. Hope you have a great day, regardless of having to work, smiles.
He really is trying. And thank you, it was a good day.
DeleteHi Stacy. I would love to know the story of how you met up with your biological dad. Are you adopted? I am and met my bio mom and sibs when I was in my 20s. I don't think I'll ever know my bio dad - long story, but my bio mom has not really been very forthcoming about him. I think he is probably deceased now. Anyway, sounds like an interesting story - your bio dad sounds like he is feeling some guilt and maybe trying to make up for lost time. You have a challenging, but very important job. Hugs from UT, my friend.
ReplyDeleteIf you'd like to give me your email I'll tell you all about it sometime. I've been pretty open here on the blog, but I don't really want to rehash the entire thing here. My story is, from others I'm hearing, turning out to be pretty common in these days of easily obtained DNA testing.
DeleteI love a good crock pot soup recipe. I need to find one for this weekend - its supposed to rain all day Saturday.
ReplyDeleteWell isnt that something with your dad still reaching out... I bet he has all sorts of emotions about the past & is really trying to make up for things - which obviously can never be made up for... but I know he's probably still hoping for a better future for you two.
I gotta start thinking about taking down my Christmas stuff... always so depressing to me.
I made amazing veggie soup in the crockpot a few Christmases ago, but I don't know what I did with the recipe. I have looked and looked. Even the meat lovers among us thought it was super delicious! If I ever find it I'll pass it on.
Delete"Dad" isn't really the touchy-feely sort but he makes a few comments here and there that let me know this touches him deeply, too, and that he is trying to overcome a bit of guilt.
Some years the going away of Christmas depresses me, but not this year. I am all about 2020 and looking ahead this year.
I enjoyed your post, Stacy! We love ham & bean soup so I'm checking out your recipe next. I usually just use canned beans so I'll be interested in trying this one!
ReplyDeleteIt is very simple and very, very good. I think you will like it. And hey, I think dried beans are still cheaper than canned.
DeleteGosh, that soup sounds wonderful! Unfortunately, that's the only way I like ham; and Tom refuses to eat beans. Like Rebecca, I'm supposed to be taking down the Christmas décor, but that's so depressing. Maybe, like another blogger wrote, I'll shoot for GroundHog day...lol.
ReplyDeleteLOL...y'all have a real problem with ham and bean soup then! Why not keep the tree up all year and just redecorate for the different holidays or seasons? One of my sister-in-laws did that for several years.
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