Good morning! I admit I'm kind of in a funk this morning...not sure if work is getting to me or if I'm just tired and need a break...but whatever the reason, I know the best "cure" is to focus on the blessings in my life. So, I am linking up with Rebecca Jo @ Knit By God's Hand for Thankful Thursday.
This week I am thankful...
** for my son-in-law and his willingness to help with projects around the house. This week he has been putting together the bed/trundle bed combo I bought. He is going to finish it up tonight.
** that so far this winter all the big, bad, winter storms have pretty much missed us. We really haven't gotten more than a wee bit of the outer edges of the storms. In fact, it's supposed to be 66 degrees on Saturday! 66 in the middle of January in the mountains of southwestern Pennsylvania. Crazy.
** the meals in our second Hello Fresh box look just as good as the ones in the first box. I love that 3 times a week we are eating things we wouldn't normally have. These are "fancier" meals than I'd normally cook and we're finding we like things we might have thought we wouldn't. Last night's dinner was tortellini in a sauce of sauteed leeks and butter infused with garlic and Italian spices. It was topped with roasted tomatoes and zucchini and toasted Panko crumbs. It was delicious...though I'm sure it left us with some pretty potent breath! lol Tonight I'll be making the Italian soup. Can't wait to try it.
** our daughter went to her hearing on Tuesday for a traffic stop...the inspection on their truck was expired. They took care of it in the amount of time the state trooper had told her to so the magistrate dismissed the tickets and told her to consider it a lesson learned. Thank goodness. The kids can't afford to pay any fines right now.
** our son and his children were not hurt when their car was rear-ended and the damage was mild enough he isn't even going to report it to his insurance.
** all the sickies in the family (no actual flu...just viruses and one sinus infection) are finally on the mend.
** for another generous gift from my biological father...and another precious letter. It is amazing to be getting to know him after all these years.
** it appears both sides in the U.S./Iran dust up seem to be taking a step back and calming down.
** that I got to know a lovely resident at the home quite well over the past year. She was such a joy. At 90 she still participated in every activity, made lots of friends, helped us out with tasks like sorting donated greeting cards, and was just a lovely lady. It makes her sudden and unexpected death harder to take, but I am glad I knew her. She was a great example of what I hope to be like when I am older.
** that I continue to be able to hold my tongue when my boss is talking down to me. I don't want her to push me into losing my cool and acting in a less than Christian way. I am watching the job ads a lot more actively, though. I'm also considering whether or not we could manage if I backed off to part-time hours...which would mean I'd only work in the dementia unit and not have to deal with her or only rarely have to deal with her.
** for each one of you!
Have a blessed and beautiful Thankful Thursday!
That "holding the tongue" thing is something I've worked on for years & have made HUGE strides... but still need so much more to go!!!
ReplyDeleteI love hearing how the relationship with you & your biological father is just growing. That's so exciting.
Whew on your daughters hearing. Who wants unexpected things to drain your bank account.
Thanks always for joining with me - I always just enjoy seeing the things you find in your life that makes your heart happy
Trust me, holding my tongue is not something that comes naturally. It's taken me a long time to get to where I can allow God to clamp his hand over my mouth! I love the Thursday lists, too. As soon as I respond to the comments here I'm off to read everyone else's.
Delete"Holding the tongue" thing, I am learning is not easy to do...just saying.
ReplyDeleteI am glad the ticket was dismissed, lesson learned, right? (the judge sounds like a decent guy, smiles)
I am so happy to read about your biological dad and how it is working out, smiles.
P.S. I saw where we are suppose to have 56* by Saturday! In Western NY in January! IN JANUARY!!! Weirdness, lol.
I hope you have a beautiful day, regardless of the "funk" mood and the boss.
Yep, crazy weirdness this January weather! And thank you, the funk is gone, but not the desire to do something about the job so I don't have to deal with her.
DeleteWorking a job with a less than friendly boss can be so stressful, hope you find a way to work through it. Always great to leave the courthouse with a ticket dismissed, I don't think that happens often!!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mary. I am looking at my working options a lot right now. I hope something will work out soon, but all in God's timing. No, I don't think they just let you walk on those traffic tickets very often. I'm glad he let my daughter go, though. Whew!
DeleteLove your attitude!
ReplyDeleteHolding my tongue at my last (long-term) job was always a struggle. Unfortunately, my expression always speaks volumes. Not good. I'm still enjoying hoodie weather this morning, but they're predicting warming temps tomorrow and Saturday … tornado weather the locals call it. :(
It's not my natural attitude. I often have to clamp down on what I'm really thinking and CHOOSE to behave rightly. Not always fun.
DeleteOh, that southern tornado weather...been there, done that! Don't need to do it again. I've no desire to be blown to OZ!
I've had a busy week, so I haven't been able to read blogs for a few days. I am trying to catch up on back posts.
ReplyDeleteThere is so much to comment on in what you've shared today. First, your attitude toward your boss's disrespectful behavior is to be commended. I am reminded that "a gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Truly, if you squawked back at her, it would just make things worse. So, good for you for keeping quiet...and for considering if you can make a job change to remove yourself from that situation.
That patient you talked about sounds lovely. That is the way I want to be when I am old. I know I may not have full control over that, but as much as possible, I want to be gracious to the end.
Praising God with you that no one was hurt when your son was rear-ended. That actually could have been very bad.
Also, wonderful news about your biological dad reaching out.
Have a great day, Stacy.
Thank you. That is exactly what I keep reminding myself of when I want to lash out...it sure will feel good for a minute, but then it will get a whole lot worse and I'm not up for that!
DeleteShe really was a lovely woman and such a good example of how to live out the golden years. She never, ever complained about being at the home or not seeing much of her family (they really rarely visited), or all the other things most of the residents complain about. She focused on the positive and made the most of the hand she'd been dealt. We are all missing her very much and sad that the family chose to cremate her without any service at all.
I hope you are having a great week!
She sounds like a lovely lady and I hope I'll be like more like that as I grow older.
ReplyDeleteI hope we all are more like her. It sure would make our days and everyone else's a lot more pleasant that whining and complaining.
DeleteI'm not so sure I could hold my tongue, Stacy, but kudos to you for holding yours! It is great that your bio-dad has stepped up and is forging a relationship with you. How great is that!! The Thursday thankful lists are always so great to read!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Terri, and the Thursday lists are my favorite part of the blogging week!
DeleteI know what it is like to have a difficult boss. You are right to hold your tongue and plan your next move. Much to be thankful for this week. I hope you enjoy your weekend! P.S. I still plan to respond to your email and share my story of finding my bio-family. It has been such a darn busy week, but I think it is so lovely that you have reconnected with your father and are establishing a positive relationship. So glad I found your blog. It has quickly become one of my favorites!
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