Saturday 9: Voices Carry (1985)
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
Unfamiliar with this week's tune? Hear it here.
This song was chosen because October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Please share this link to The National Domestic Violence Hotline. Let's spread the word that there's help out there.
1) In this song, a woman is "hushed" by her lover. When were you last told to "keep it down?" Just the other day when my husband was watching the news.
2) Her lover tells her tears are something to hide. Researchers tell us that crying can be good for us, because by releasing emotional stress, it lessens physical stress on the cardiovascular system. Are you comfortable crying infront of other people? I guess I'm not since I rarely cry in front of others....but I really don't cry much in private, either.
3) In this video, the woman makes a scene by speaking up in a theater. Today theater goers are more likely to be disturbed by a cell phone ringing or its screen illuminating. Are you careful to turn your phone off in the theater, church, etc.? Yes. Unfortunately, I'm terrible at remembering to turn it back on.
4) When this group, Til Tuesday, was still struggling, Cyndi Lauper was already a star. Cyndi offered to record this song, which would have brought the group some fast cash, but only if they agreed not to record it themselves. Obviously they didn't take the deal. Tell us about a time you took a risk on yourself, and it paid off. It would have to be when I got involved in youth ministry. I didn't want to teach and surely had no experience or talent, but I ended up going from teaching little kids, to teaching teens in youth group and Sunday School, to teaching at camp, to running the vacation Bible school program, to teaching at that denomination's national youth convention, to leading teens on mission trips, to sitting on the administrative board of the region....all in a 3-4 year period of time. You never know what you can do.
5) Til Tuesday's lead singer, Aimee Mann, went to Open High School in Richmond, Virginia. This charter high school is dedicated to helping students become "self-determined thinkers and learners." Do you recall your high school as permissive or regimented? I'd say it was just a normal high school for the times, but I suppose by today's standards it would be considered regimented. I know I found out as my kids went through it's hallowed halls that it's certainly not the same school I went to. They are guilty of teaching white-washed history and common core math and they were caught "cheating" on standardized tests...coaching kids, letting them retake the tests, discarding low scores...all to get a better rating from the state and therefore, more money.
Yep, this is really how it's done now. You should see how they do long division. |
6) Aimee has been on the road through 2017 and, like most artists, sells tour merchandise. Her line includes reusable tote bags. Do you bring your own bag to the grocery store? No, for the most part I only do "big" grocery shopping trips so I would need a LOT of bags. I only do that if I'm going to Aldi's where I have to buy my bags...but I'm reusing the ones I bought because they are soooo much stronger than the crappy plastic ones everyone else uses. How are we saving the planet by making thinner bags when you need to double-bag just to carry a roll of paper towels??
7) Aimee has tried her hand at acting and appeared on Buffy, The Vampire Slayer. From Dracula to Barnabas Collins to Lestat, vampires are a popular culture staple (especially in October). What do you suppose accounts for their enduring popularity? The whole immortality thing? If it's not that then I have no idea. People like to be scared a bit, so I get the old school vamps, but I don't get the whole attraction to the new ones. I don't find them sexy in the least.
8) In 1985, when this song was popular, Bruce Springsteen was at the top of the charts with Born in the USA. A massive commercial success, Born in the USA has sold more than 15,000,000 copies in the United States alone. Is it in your collection? Surprisingly, no. I liked Bruce well enough back in the day and I still enjoy some of his songs (Pink Cadillac is a favorite), but I've never bought an album/CD/download.
9) Random question: In which race would you do better -- the Iditarod, with sled dogs in Nome, or speeding in a car at 200+ mph at the Indianapolis 500? I was nearly in a head-on collision yesterday when someone coming the other way tried to pass the car in front of them. My bus was coming down a hill at 55 mph and the passer had to have been doing at least 60. We were too close together when she pulled out and she should never, ever have tried. The car being passed never slowed down (oblivious, scared, mad?). I hit my brakes, geared down and tried to ease as far off the road as possible when there really was no place to go except into a 3 ft. deep ditch. The woman just made it, yanking the wheel at the last possible second. I still can't believe she tried it. Had we hit it would have been bad. So, yeah, I'm going to go with the Iditarod. Even though I hate snow and extreme cold I'll take the dogs rather than certain death at 200 mph.
This is pretty much the image that was passing through my brain at the time. |
Yesterday certainly was terrifying! I'm glad today you have off and don't have to get back behind the wheel of your bus again for a couple days.
ReplyDeleteI think that's the closest call I've ever had so definitely appreciating the days off.
DeleteSo far everyone I've read has chosen the Iditarod. I think we have a team forming here.
DeleteIt might be fun as a team.
DeleteWhat a terrifying bus experience. Holy shit! There is no way I would have been able to keep my composure. You're such a hero!
ReplyDeleteAnd that math system? WHAT the what?????
Aw, thanks, but nah...I'm not. After you've been driving as a job for a long time some things get to be second nature and you just do them without even thinking.
DeleteNow that math...anyone who can understand that deserves a medal!
OMG! Don't get me started about men and TV. My husband has zero problem with coming into the room while I am watching TV and talking (while standing between me and the TV). Heaven forbid I were to ever to that to him and the dumb shows that he watches.
ReplyDeleteThat bus thing would scare the bejeezuz out of me. I'd be looking for a new job that has nothing to do with driving.
Isn't that the truth?! My dad was the same way when I was a kid. Grrrr.
DeleteA new job is something I'd love to find, but for a part-time job it's hard to beat the pay, summers off, and no weekends, nights, or holidays.
I agree with those above. A terrifying experience! Probably not your first and because people are idiots on the road, probably won't be your last. Your expertise at your craft kept you and the kids safe, thank God! As for the math....ridiculousness.
ReplyDeleteWell, not my first, but definitely my closest call.
DeleteI think regular math leans toward ridiculousness, so common core math leaves me completely lost.
I can't even imagine the horror you felt. Like others have said, thank goodness for your expertise and instincts!
ReplyDeleteI can sure identify with your response to #2. Some feelings are too deep for mere tears.
Yes, some feelings are definitely too much for tears.
DeleteThat math thing. The instructions are good, take 3 tens out and then add 7 to 6. But then they didn't do it?!! No wonder the kids are confused! Semi-Dyslexic me figured it out fast.
ReplyDeleteThanks for being such a good and alert person on those mean streets out there. The person being passed should have slowed down. It's common sense when dealing with an idiot on the road. You are my Hero, too.
Well, I guess it makes a little more sense the way you explained it, but it's still way more steps. What's the point? My hubby gets so frustrated with the younger guys at work who cannot do simple math on the job.
DeleteAww, thanks. Being a bus driver has definitely made me more alert as a driver in general because it's unbelievable how many people do stupid stuff around a bus.